Do we blame parents who were probably victims of abuse themselves?

我们应该责备我们的父母么，他们在小时候可能也是同样的受害者？

Now don't get me wrong, all overachievers in your schools are not victims of abuse or trauma.

请各位不要误解，并不是说你学校里所有成绩突出的学生都是虐待或创伤的受害者。

Frequently, victims of abuse aren't sure whether or not they want to tip off their abuser by cutting off their access.

通常，受害者不确定他们是否想通过切断访问权来摆脱入侵者。

Neil:The plight of the Asian elephant in China makes a pretty bleak picture, I must say. I understand that they are victims of all sorts of abuse.

不得不说，亚洲象在中国遇到的困境让它们的前景看起来一片黯淡。我知道它们在遭受着各种滥捕滥杀。