The Indirect Approach To Getting Rid of Unwanted friends.

间接处理那些不需要的朋友的方法。

First, the direct approach. Second, the indirect approach.

第一，直接的，第二，间接的。

Questions: do we go with direct questions or a more indirect approach?

提问：我们是直接提问还是绕个弯子比较好呢？

In many cases this requires you to take a softer and more indirect approach.

在许多场合，这需要你采用更委婉和间接的方法。