If you want good relationships, you must have the confidence to be self-assertive when required.

如果你想要发展好的关系，在需要的时候必须要有自信，拿出主见来。

Nevertheless you are in a self-assertive mood today.

今天你的情绪会比较独断独行。

In this process of dissolution, the monadically closed-off subjectivity of self-assertive and mutually objectifying individuals is dispossessed and cast down into the abyss.

在这个溶解的过程中，主观自负的封闭主体性和相互客体化的个体被剥夺和并塑像下来进入深渊。

Give a passive man testosterone and it will fire him up and he'll become more assertive and self-reliant.

给一个消极被动的男人补充睾酮后，会激发出他的热情，使他变得更为自信和独立。

This is why women aged 45-50 suddenly become more assertive and more self-reliant. The downside is that these women are more likely to grow facial hair and suffer stress and strokes.

所以45 - 50岁的女性会突然变得更自信和独立，而不利方面是，这个年龄段的女性更有可能面部汗毛变多、易遭受精神压力和中风。