As with everything in life, first impressions are vital. Each participant must be put at ease.

就如生命中的任何事情，第一印象是最关键的，每个参与者必须很放松。

When you hold a conversation, people are put at ease, and the red flags that go up with a "pitch" are not there, and people will listen more closely to you.

当你举行了交谈，人们安心，而悬挂起来，走“草地”不是那里和人民将更加紧密地倾听你。

She is the kind of person who can always put others at ease.

她是那种总是能让人感觉轻松自在的人。

But after a minimum of small talk to put us at ease, it was down to more serious matters.

不过，我们只花了很少时间闲聊来放松气氛，随后就把话题转到了比较严肃的话题上。

If a less attractive woman were to act as she does, she would be sympathized with, understood and efforts would be made to put her at her ease.

如果有个没那么吸引人的女人像她那样害羞，人们会同情她，理解她，并努力帮助她放松。