Realistic enough to recognize dissention was a common element in life, he nonetheless believed in seeking out non-violent solutions.

他很清楚争端与分歧是现实中常有的事，但依然坚信可以寻求非暴力的解决方式。

It is deeply rooted in the traditional Chinese culture, and is the main means of settling dissention among the folks and in the court.

它深深扎根于中国传统文化的土壤，一直是我国民间及法院的主要解纷方式。

Anything can make them dislike you; your looks, your style, your popularity and even your inability to make mistakes, which robs them of the chance to reprimand you, can cause dissention.

不管什么事情都能够成为让她们不喜欢你的理由：你的长相、你的气质、以及你的人望都会引起纠纷，甚至因为你不犯错也会导致她们不喜欢你，因为这使得她们没有机会来训斥你。