On another level, some people truly find it erotically exciting to give or receive the intense physical sensations most people think of as pain.

从另一层面来看，某些人确实能在施加或接受强烈的肉体感觉时激起强烈的性亢奋，而大多数人会认为这是一种痛苦。

Affirm that you care about him, then phrase your questions gently, eg "Please help me to understand who you really are, erotically speaking."

申明你关心他的状况，然后温和的表达你的问题，像这样“帮我了解真正的你好吗，在你的性欲方面。”

Gustav Klimt's "The Kiss" is characteristic of his work: erotically charged, dazzlingly embellished and rich in gleaming gold tones.

克里姆特的“吻”是他的工作特点：情欲收费，耀眼闪烁的金色点缀和丰富的色调。